Remembering Why Perfect Grades Aren’t Everything
by Melbourne Child Psychology & School Psychology Services, Port Melbourne
At the end of last year, thousands of year 12 graduates received their final grades.
And while the emotional responses around the country likely ranged from devastation to euphoria…
Whichever side of the spectrum a graduate might fall on, it’s still important to remember:
Grades AREN’T everything!
For those who did well, it’s a great accomplishment that will serve as a head-start for their futures.
And for those who didn’t, it’s an opportunity to look at what they can learn from this experience.
But for both camps, accepting that marks are not the be all and end all of education is an important lesson going forward.
Because grades aren’t a reflection of intelligence or ability.
They are a reflection of hard work.
2017 VCE student Daniel Hu received an ATAR of 99.85…
Yet he insists this grade did not come easily.
‘One important lesson I learned through these 13 years of schooling is that success doesn’t necessarily belong to those who are naturally talented, or those from wealthy family backgrounds. It belongs to those who work hard.’
‘I took it upon myself to study as hard as possible for the HSC… I worked assiduously, trying to maximise my potential in every subject. I am not an intelligent kid. In terms of intelligence, I’m probably below average. Yet, that never fazed me.’
While the exact definition of ‘hard work’ will vary for every student — some may excel in particular areas and struggle with others — the rewards from effort and diligence are universal.
Grades aren’t the point of school.
Learning is!
Research shows that prioritizing good grades over anything else limits our ability to learn.
It discourages academic risk-taking, creativity and engagement…
Crucial elements of a productive, rewarding and ultimately successful school experience.
As a result, students can lose their desire to learn…
And instead, their motivation becomes solely to get through the next assignment or the next test.
This attitude leads to ‘cramming’ and unhealthy study and life habits…
Causing stress and anxiety, negatively impacting sleep, and reducing engagement and information retention with study materials.
And that’s why…
Prioritizing learning over grades is the key to success.
When students love to learn, they’re inherently motivated to study and engage with what they’re learning.
They work hard, and understand the value of diligence, persistence and commitment to what they’re learning.
And in the face of failures or disappointments, they’re resilient...
They take these setbacks as an opportunity for further learning and growth.
While chasing good grades is a finite endeavor (it ends when the results come in)…
A love of learning can — and usually does — last a lifetime.
And the benefits of a love of learning continue into adulthood, in university, work, social and home life.
That’s why motivation — not innate ability — is the key to success.
So help students thrive in school by showing them that grades aren’t everything.
That learning is a privilege, and one that we should value and enjoy.
That being challenged is one of the best ways to learn.
And that the benefits of loving learning will last far longer than any grade.
Students can do this by:
Always promoting a love of learning, and outside of the school setting.
Encouraging to pursuing their interests and passions, rather than choosing subjects that they’re naturally good at.
Taking the pressure off, but holding high expectations to support their motivation and self-esteem.
And by focusing on finding the value in the process, rather than the outcome.
Source: https://www.melbournechildpsychology.com.au/blog/remembering-why-perfect-grades-arent-everything/
